Toddler Biting Problems

In the Defense:
Toddler biting can actually be a defense mechanism. While you will certainly know that a child has been bitten, you may have missed whatever occurred immediately before the biting happened. You may not have noticed that your child was pushed, shoved, or hit. If this incident happened, your child's mode of defense may have been to bite the offending child. If you are dealing with young toddlers, it may be next to impossible to find out the whole story!
Communication:
Because toddlers may not be very adept at communicating their wants and needs, they bite as a form of communication. They learn that the can get some type of response or attention by resorting to this behavior, even if it is negative attention.
How Can You Stop Toddler Biting?Once you've figured out why your toddler is biting others, you may be able to stop this behavior.
Don't Bite Back!Many parents of biting toddlers punish their children by biting them back. Does this work? Absolutely not! Instead, it only reemphasizes the behavior that the child is already practicing. Remember, toddlers are little sponges, soaking up words and actions around them. This is how they learn. Parents need to teach by example. If you bite your child back, what are you teaching him?
Attention:
One of the reasons that toddlers bite is simply for attention. However, if the bitten child receives all of the attention instead of the biting child, what has she learned? Her plan has backfired. When a toddler bites another child, give the bitten child lots of attention first.
Investigate the CircumstancesIf your child is biting the same child over and over, or if your child bites another child for the first time, you might need to investigate what else may be happening. If another child is bullying your toddler, she may have bitten that child as a form of self-protection. While of course, you should reprimand your child, try to find out why she bit the other child. If you do discover mitigating circumstances, talk to the parents of the other child. If the problem continues, discuss the situation with your daycare provider, if applicable.
Firm and Consistent Responses One of the best ways to deal with a biting toddler is to be firm and consistent in your response. As soon as you have discovered what your child has done, tell him in a no-nonsense voice, "No biting!" You will need to remove the child from the situation, and it may be a good idea to put him in time-out or take away a treasured toy for a while. Of course, you should explain why you are doing this to your child.

Love and Patience: Finally, it will take lots of love and patience on your part to help your child overcome this annoying habit. You may find that if you spend a little extra time holding your child, after his punishment, he may respond to this extra time with you. Eventually, your child will grow out of this frustrating behavior problem.


Biting has made a come back here with my toddlers "Please be aware I am working on this problem"----My next step is to make something that biters can chew on when they feel like biting and make sure it is close by or maybe make it where they can ware it around their neck.

Good news: This shall pass too. In the mean time (as granny would say); I have put a chicken eye on the children to see the whole story.